陪读妈妈因何心碎Accompany because He Xin is broken,read mom陪讀媽媽因何心碎

  燕云哭了,特别伤心,开始是小声呜咽,后来忍不住嚎啕大哭。仿佛大考失利、与名校失之交臂的是她自己,而不是女儿。

  真正的主角反而在母亲的失态中忍不住惊愕,刹住了眼泪。

  “算了,读差一点的学校也行,只要自己肯努力,在哪儿读书都有机会,以后的路还长着呢,又不是一考定终身。”孩子爸递过纸巾说,“你看你,把孩子都吓着了,我是安慰你呢还是安慰她?”

  泪眼朦胧中燕云抬头望老公,觉得他的话有道理,心中感到些许宽慰。这些年来总是这样,她虽然为家中大小事务操心劳碌更多,但他才是主心骨,从给孩子起名字,到家庭投资方式,她都等他拿主意,听他的。

  20年前,燕云撇开女性羞涩的面纱,倒追他的那个时候起,她就坚信自己的选择——这个本镇唯一的80年代的大学生,一定聪明、有文化,一定会带给她好的生活。虽然那时候的他貌不出众,一穷二白,只揣着一张大学文凭。

  实话实说,结婚直到如今,老公的大学文凭也没给她带来夫贵妻荣的生活,他既不高官,也无厚禄,生活就是衣食无忧罢了。燕云挺满足的,嫁给他,日子踏实宁静。

  “第一,这样的男人有原则,不会乱来,让人放心;第二,有聪明的爸,孩子一准儿也聪明!”燕云曾说。

  其实,他们的孩子并无过人资质,大学生老公忙于工作,没多少时间管,她倒是当了不折不扣的“陪读”妈妈。从女儿小学一年级起,她就提前借来教科书,赶在老师教前把课程学一遍,孩子不懂的地方,她可以及时辅导。小学6年,中学6年,她硬是不折不扣地坚持下来了,现在提笔能解出三角函数题。想起这些,燕云的伤心就忍不住加倍,岂止孩子十年寒窗,这个家庭付出的是双倍的努力。

  “又不是没书读,只是没上一本,女儿以后还可以考名校研究生嘛。”丈夫说。

  “是的,宝贝你一定要努力,你基础这么好,这次是发挥失利,一定要把大学的专业学好,考个名校的研究生!”燕云坚定地说。

  “你不会继续陪读吧?”老公笑问。

  “当然陪读了,多学点没什么坏处!我们得赶紧研究一下报什么学校专业了。”燕云抹了眼泪,拿出厚厚的报考指南,开始做新一轮研究。

  和燕云的交往并不多,但朋友里,她最让我觉得特别。

  想到《生死朗读》的主角汉娜,和15岁的少年恋爱,不是迷恋青春的身体,是迷恋男孩朗朗读书的声音,她宁可被误解以至被判终身监禁,也不愿提笔做字迹比较,以隐瞒自己是个文盲的事实;想到《我的父亲母亲》里,没读过书的农村女孩抱着“美食”,追逐下放老师车子的镜头,像一幅油画……隔着时空地域,燕云和这些女人有着相似的灵魂,对知识、对文化也许没有超人的见解和深刻的理解,但正是这种“没有”,反成全了她们永不止息的追求和神往。

  嫁给大学生,给孩子陪读,与其说燕云是在帮助孩子创造前途,不如说是在读自己永恒的憧憬。



下面是蔡亞霖翻译所得
Yan Yun cried, particularly sad, beginning is in a low voice sob, cannot help crying loudly later. As if final examination suffers a defeat, with renown school of just miss the opportunity is herself, is not a daughter.

Real leading role is in instead of the mother nohow in cannot help stunnedding, skid tear.

“Calculated, the school that reads all but also goes, want oneself to agree hard only, read to have an opportunity where, the following road still is growing, not be to be taken an examination of calm lifelong. ” child father has given paper towel to say, “You see you, frightening the child, am I to comfort you still comfort her? Am I to comfort you still comfort her??

Tearful eyes is hazy Zhong Yanyun looks up at husband, feel his word is reasonable, trifling comfort feels in the heart. These year coming always is such, although she worries about for general affairs of the size in the home work hard is more, but he just is the backbone, from have a name to the child, excellent front courtyard invests way, she waits for his decide, listen to him.

20 years ago, woman of swallow cloud bypass’ shy veil, pour those who chase after him to rise at that time, she is certain oneself choice — this undergraduate that presses down only 80 time originally, certain and clever, literate, regular meeting brings her good life. Although his of that moment appearance is not distinctive, poor, putting one magnify to learn diploma only.

Truth fact says, marry till nowadays, the university diploma of husband also did not bring the life of husband Gui Qirong to her, his both neither is curule, also do not have thick salary, the life is back and belly stopped without care. Yan Yunting is contented, marry him, the time is dependable and quiet.

“The first, such man has a principle, won’t come in disorder, let a person be at ease; The 2nd, have clever father, the child one certain is clever also! ” Yan Yunceng says.

Actually, their child is not had outstanding aptitude, undergraduate husband busies the job, not much time canal, she was become however of one hundred percent ” accompany read ” mom. From daughter elementary school one grade rises, she borrows schoolbook ahead of schedule, drive before the teacher teachs to learn course, the place that the child does not know, she can in time coach. Elementary school 6 years, learn 6 years in, she just ground of one hundred percent insists to come down, carry a pen to be able to solve a trigonometric function problem now. Remember these, of Yan Yun sad cannot help double, stop the child 10 years of cold windows, what this family pays is pair of effort of times.

“Not be to do not have a book to read, just did not get on, a school graduate student still can be taken an examination of after the daughter. ” the man says.

“Yes, baby you must try hard, your foundation is so good, it is play suffers a defeat this, must learn the major of the university, take an examination of the graduate student of a renown school! ” Yanyun says sturdily.

“Won’t you continue to accompany read? ” husband laugh asks.

“Accompany of course read, learn to nod disadvantage of it doesn’t matter more! We must consider to sign up for what school major rapidly. ” Yan Yun wiped tear, take out enter oneself for an examination thickly guideline, begin to do new round of research.

He Yanyun’s association is not much, but in the friend, she most let me feel special.

Think of ” life and death is recited ” leading role Han Na, with teenager love of 15 years old, not be the body that is infatuated with youth, it is infatuation the boy is bright the sound that read, she would rather be sentenced by misapprehensive down to lifelong imprisonment, also do not wish to carry a pen to do handwriting to compare, in order to hide the fact that oneself are an illiteracy; Think of ” my parents ” in, the rural girl that had not read a book is being held in the arms ” cate ” , the camera lens of car of teacher of angle transfer to a lower level, resemble a canvas… region of the clearing when be being lain between, yan Yun is having similar spirit with these women, to the knowledge, understanding that perhaps does not have preterhuman opinion and profundity to culture, but be this is planted ” not ” , helped sb to fulfill his wishes instead the pursuit that they never cease and be charmed.

Marry an undergraduate, accompany to the child read, say with its Yan Yun is to helping the child create a prospect, be inferior to saying is to reading his lasting longing.



下面是林佳儀翻译所得
  燕雲哭瞭,特別傷心,開始是小聲嗚咽,後來忍不住嚎啕大哭。仿佛大考失利、與名校失之交臂的是她自己,而不是女兒。

  真正的主角反而在母親的失態中忍不住驚愕,剎住瞭眼淚。

  “算瞭,讀差一點的學校也行,隻要自己肯努力,在哪兒讀書都有機會,以後的路還長著呢,又不是一考定終身。”孩子爸遞過紙巾說,“你看你,把孩子都嚇著瞭,我是安慰你呢還是安慰她?”

  淚眼朦朧中燕雲抬頭望老公,覺得他的話有道理,心中感到些許寬慰。這些年來總是這樣,她雖然為傢中大小事務操心勞碌更多,但他才是主心骨,從給孩子起名字,到傢庭投資方式,她都等他拿主意,聽他的。

  20年前,燕雲撇開女性羞澀的面紗,倒追他的那個時候起,她就堅信自己的選擇——這個本鎮唯一的80年代的大學生,一定聰明、有文化,一定會帶給她好的生活。雖然那時候的他貌不出眾,一窮二白,隻揣著一張大學文憑。

  實話實說,結婚直到如今,老公的大學文憑也沒給她帶來夫貴妻榮的生活,他既不高官,也無厚祿,生活就是衣食無憂罷瞭。燕雲挺滿足的,嫁給他,日子踏實寧靜。

  “第一,這樣的男人有原則,不會亂來,讓人放心;第二,有聰明的爸,孩子一準兒也聰明!”燕雲曾說。

  其實,他們的孩子並無過人資質,大學生老公忙於工作,沒多少時間管,她倒是當瞭不折不扣的“陪讀”媽媽。從女兒小學一年級起,她就提前借來教科書,趕在老師教前把課程學一遍,孩子不懂的地方,她可以及時輔導。小學6年,中學6年,她硬是不折不扣地堅持下來瞭,現在提筆能解出三角函數題。想起這些,燕雲的傷心就忍不住加倍,豈止孩子十年寒窗,這個傢庭付出的是雙倍的努力。

  “又不是沒書讀,隻是沒上一本,女兒以後還可以考名校研究生嘛。”丈夫說。

  “是的,寶貝你一定要努力,你基礎這麼好,這次是發揮失利,一定要把大學的專業學好,考個名校的研究生!”燕雲堅定地說。

  “你不會繼續陪讀吧?”老公笑問。

  “當然陪讀瞭,多學點沒什麼壞處!我們得趕緊研究一下報什麼學校專業瞭。”燕雲抹瞭眼淚,拿出厚厚的報考指南,開始做新一輪研究。

  和燕雲的交往並不多,但朋友裡,她最讓我覺得特別。

  想到《生死朗讀》的主角漢娜,和15歲的少年戀愛,不是迷戀青春的身體,是迷戀男孩朗朗讀書的聲音,她寧可被誤解以至被判終身監禁,也不願提筆做字跡比較,以隱瞞自己是個文盲的事實;想到《我的父親母親》裡,沒讀過書的農村女孩抱著“美食”,追逐下放老師車子的鏡頭,像一幅油畫……隔著時空地域,燕雲和這些女人有著相似的靈魂,對知識、對文化也許沒有超人的見解和深刻的理解,但正是這種“沒有”,反成全瞭她們永不止息的追求和神往。

  嫁給大學生,給孩子陪讀,與其說燕雲是在幫助孩子創造前途,不如說是在讀自己永恒的憧憬。

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